I generally try to keep the tone of my blog light and upbeat cos I figure everyone has enough going on in their lives without me adding to it. But, last week, something happened that has taken me a while to process, to try to comprehend, and I haven�t known what to say. I still don�t really. Someone I knew since I was a kid unexpectedly took her life. I�m not going to go into details, and neither am I going to say all the standard things you say when someone dies, other than: �Joy, rest in peace�. I don�t agree with what you did, and you�ve left one hell of a mess in your wake. But I hope you are now at a quiet, restful, untroubled peace, wherever you may be now. Your family are in my thoughts.